These Are The Zodiac Signs That You’d Have The Most Complicated Relationships With
People gravitate towards each other for many different reasons. Sometimes, it’s a smile that will spark the interest and pull you in.
Other times, the words that come out of someone’s mouth will wrap their way around your mind and you simply won’t be able to stop thinking about hearing more.The intrigue is there, so you move forward trying to get to know the person a little better. You feel each other out, wondering if this will be the one you fall for…the one you build the unbreakable bond with.But relationships are complicated. People are complicated. So…when you’re first figuring out whether or not to pursue an interest, it helps to know what your bottom lines are: what kind of person you’re really looking for.Who will you vibe the best with? Who will enrich your life the most?Who is going to, plainly put, drive you absolutely bonkers once all those infatuated feels fade?
For anyone who follows astrology, you know very well there are certain signs you gravitate to over others, but these signs still might not be in your best interest. That’s why this list exists: to help you cut through the complications and figure out which signs you’re probably best to avoid if you’re looking for a simple relationship that can flourish naturally. Don’t force it. Don’t complicate it further than it needs to be.
1. Aries (March 20–April 19) has the most complicated relationships with: Cancer and Virgo.
Aries is a fire sign. They are typically strong-willed individuals who are passionate and dynamic, but they can also be very temperamental. The fuse here runs short, fast. Cancer is a water sign, meaning the emotions here run high too…but in a different way. Cancers are intuitive and sensitive, making the perfect concoction with Aries for easily hurt feelings and misunderstandings.
Remember, opposites may attract, but they are attracting some seriously complicated drama in this case. Virgo is an earth sign: these people are grounded and have no time for the high level of emotions that come with the Aries personality. Relationships between these two will always be a back and forth of trying to bring the other back to their level.
2. Taurus (April 19–May 20) has the most complicated relationships with: Scorpio and Leo.
Taurus is an earth sign and is grounded and conservative. A Taurus will be there for you through hard times, and they expect the same. Scorpios are water signs, and they can be a little wishy-washy. They run on love and intimacy, whereas a Taurus runs on rationality.This creates a breeding ground for being let down by Taurus and for a lot of hurt feelings between the two. Being the bull, a Taurus won’t back down when they feel they’ve been let down. Leos are fire signs with sparks of passion guiding their every moves.This provides the ultimate combination for complication with a Taurus because both are acting from really different perspectives. Leos are self-aware and don’t really appreciate the input of the strong Taurus mentality.
3. Gemini (May 20–June 20) has the most complicated relationships with: Capricorn and Scorpio.
Let’s face it: Geminis have complicated relationships with almost every single sign. They’re complicated people! Gemini is an air sign, meaning they are heavy thinkers, highly intellectual, and really friendly. On the other hand, being the twins, Geminis struggle with internal conflicts. This makes having external relationships difficult.Capricorn, a grounded earth sign, doesn’t care much for the complex and airy nature of the Gemini. They don’t understand the desire to sit around, sip wine, and talk about the world. They will always try to bring the Gemini back down to earth while the Gemini will always be resisting that anchoring. Scorpios are supporters. They are the ones who will back you up without ever challenging where you’re coming from. A Gemini strives for the challenge because it provides intellectual stimulation and authenticity. The agreeable nature of a Scorpio breeds a level of distrust for the Gemini that is not conducive to creating a strong relationship.
4. Cancer (June 20–July 22) has the most complicated relationships with: Libra and Aries.
Cancer is a water sign who is super sensitive. They can be moody, irrational, and pessimistic. These are complicated traits to get along with. Libra is an air sign and has a hard time expressing themselves. They are hard-pressed to say no, even when they really want to. This means they’ll feed into those sensitivities of the Cancer personality without feeling good about it. This doesn’t make for a healthy relationship. Aries, on the other hand, is a fire sign. This sign doesn’t do well with the super sensitive types because they simply don’t get it. Aries is passionate and quick to get angry, making for an explosive combination with the super sensitive Cancer.
5. Leo (July 22–August 22) has the most complicated relationships with: Capricorn and Pisces.
Leo is a fire sign. They are warmhearted and fueled by a desire to love and be loved. This drives almost their every single move. Capricorns don’t work like this, though, which obviously complicates matters. Capricorns are highly ambitious earth signs that seek stability and sensibility. Love can provide these things, of course, but it’s not the focus of the Capricorn like it is for the Leo. This difference can create some problems between the two. Pisces is a water sign with a selfless nature that opens opportunity to be taken advantage of by those Leos looking to feel loved. Neither of these signs are very direct in their approach to relationships, though, so there is a lot of room for issues.
6. Virgo (August 22–September 22) has the most complicated relationships with: Aquarius and Sagittarius.
Virgos are earth signs who are stable and secure with themselves. They don’t work well with flighty, emotional, or insecure people. They can be cranky and overly reserved because of these things. Aquarius is an air sign. They are social, outgoing, and have a tendency to get off track, both in conversations and in life. This frustrates the grounded nature of the Virgo. Sagittarius is a fire sign. They are open-minded and want variety, change, adventure, and excitement. These work against the characteristics of a Virgo in such a way that can create anxiety in both signs. This will be the couple who argues over what is important, what to do, and even how to do it.
7. Libra (September 22–October 23) has the most complicated relationships with: Scorpio and Cancer.
Libras are analytical air signs who are gentle and passive. This seems like a great sign for anyone, but this type of uber agreeable behavior creates a lot of internal stress. This stress can manifest in other ways in relationships. Scorpio is a water sign with a fierce personality that can clash with the passiveness of a Libra. Scorpios love to put their problems on the table and get over things quickly, but the Libra resists this kind of confrontation, instead internalizing the issue and letting it fester. Cancers are also water signs who harbor their real feelings in the name of smoothing things over. The Libra will do this as well, meaning both signs will repress their feelings instead of working through them. This makes for a very quietly complicated relationship.
8. Scorpio (October 23–November 21) has the most complicated relationships with: Aquarius and Leo.
Scorpios are water signs with ambitious, driving personalities. They are dedicated and loyal and expect the same. They can be extremely intense because of those qualities. This doesn’t work well with passive personalities.Aquarius is an air sign thinker rather than a communicative do-er like Scorpio. This creates the type of relationship where both people are on different pages. Aquarius will want to sit and reflect on the relationship whereas Scorpio will want to talk it out and move on…quickly. Leos, the lovers. They want things to be peaceful and will keep quiet to make this happen, but to the detriment of the relationship with the Scorpio. The Scorpio will sense something is off, and this breeds a level of distrust between the two.
9. Sagittarius (November 21–December 21) has the most complicated relationships with: Virgo and Pisces.
Sagittarius: the passionate fire sign. They can be the most amazing and one of the most difficult people to have relationships with. Virgo: see #6 to understand this relationship dynamic better. Pisces is a water sign with a selfless desire to make everything okay, always. A Pisces will compromise their own well-being to their relationship’s detriment. When you mix this empathetic emotional capacity with the strong and individualistic personality of Sagittarius, it creates serious complications.
10. Capricorn (December 21–January 19) has the most complicated relationships with: Gemini and Aquarius.
Capricorns are complex earth signs with a strong desire to succeed. They are practical, determined, and not easily swayed by the opinion of others. Gemini: see #3 to better understand the complicated nature of this relationship.Aquarius is an air sign that can be incredibly unpredictable and even detached in personal relationships. This doesn’t sit well with a Capricorn at all. This is the type of relationship that can easily breed insecurity as the Capricorn is looking for a much more stable situation than Aquarius tends to provide.
11. Aquarius (January 19–February 18) has the most complicated relationships with: Scorpio and Virgo.
Aquarius, while great at giving advice, can also be very superficial and flighty. They are affectionate, but not overly deep.Scorpio: see #8 to better understand this relationship.Virgo: see #6 to better understand this relationship.
12. Pisces (February 18–March 20) has the most complicated relationships with: Gemini and Aries.
Pisces is a water sign who is highly intuitive. They are always thinking and trying to make things right. These are the type of people who will be there for you no matter what.Gemini, the twins. Geminis have two levels of intuition and these can conflict with each other, let alone the intuition of the Pisces. A Gemini wants directness, which Pisces won’t provide in most cases because they just want everything to be okay. Aries is the passionate fire sign who runs on high emotions and incredible drive. While they want the Pisces around for their undying supply of support, the Pisces’ inability to be straightforward and fully open creates conflict with the fiery personality of an Aries.